Unfortunately, I dont think a lot of those attitudes will change until every single leadership position isn't held by three strike eagle guys and a bone guy. In my experience, I was on the verge of being ridiculed by leadership for not wanting to go the strike route. It's as if they took offense to it.
I also found it quite interesting that in my class and many of my bros in other classes that wanted 15s at the beginning of the year ended up not wanting them towards drop night. Number one reason for the change: they didn't like the people at the school house from that community.
I think instructors need to give students credit for having the SA to realize that while going fast and blowing stuff up is cool, not liking the people and the community/culture you're associated with will make life blow no matter what your job is.