Much more accurate.
Seriously dude? Open your fucking ears and close your man pleaser. No one is saying you or anyone else is crazy for wanting a family. I've been happily married for close to a decade. I literally have 2.5 kids and a cocker spaniel. What people are saying is stop trying to plan your life 17 years from now when you obviously don't have the next 2 figured out.
You want to be a pilot and have a family? Here is a list of shit you haven't done yet:
1 - Get accepted into an commissioning program
2 - Do well enough in a commissioning program to be rewarded with a pilot slot
3 - Medically qualify for a pilot slot
4 - Attend and complete IFS
5 - Attend and copmplete UPT
6 - Attend and complete a FTU
7 - Make it through a 10 year flying career without being medically DQ'd, force shaped, or killed
And that's just for the Air Force.
I hope your attitude here is just an internet tough-guy thing. If you seriously can't handle criticism or being mocked you are looking into the wrong career field. I can assure you your time in the pilot community will be short and embarrassing - like your pecker.
If you have the desire and motivation to make your dreams happen, and you can shut your mouth and open your ears long enough to learn from those that haven been doing this since you were watching teletubbies, you'll be able to make the family situation happen.