I disagree. Just because someone doesn't know how to adult yet doesn't mean we should lower the bar. We keep the bar high, and teach that kid how to meet it. One the backside (FGOs and SNCOs), this plan requires that the "adults" are squared away. If you lower the bar for one, you lower it for all...which is what's happening across our force right now.
Keep the bar high and swhack old guys that don't meet it in order to show the way for the young ones. The kids need the visual lesson. The senior people should know better.
Teach through example, instruct with credibility, mentor with wisdom, never coddle.