I don't think anyone on here is saying there isn't a problem, but the fact is there are few in leadership with the balls to combat the BS claims, and by opening a door to schools that have a very high washout rate, given the track record, some females may earn their way in, and other may threaten their way in, which hurts the units even more. Therefore whether officially or unofficially lower standards and sub-quality candidates will be allowed into those career fields.
As for your second point I wholeheartedly agree, while I don't think it will work nor should it be implemented, there was a better time and place to do it, which I mentioned earlier and Nsplyr shot down.