Mike
According to posters on a British Army forum I visit who have met him, the NYT reporter is something of an egotist. Your CNN guy seems to be of a different ilk.
Another example of an embed who is not a freakin' Ghoul is Ross Kemp, who the spent quite a bit of time under fire in Helmand. Despite his employer being the same Australian twat that owns Fox, the NYT and the WSJ, his reporting was balanced, politically-neutral and well received by the British Army.
Oh, and Michael Yon is another very good freelancer (ex-SF, IIRC).