If you're located in SLO, that means you probably have been a flight attendant on Sky West/United Express (e.g. "stewardess",... nothing wrong with that term, since I'm over 40. Actually,... nothing wrong with that term, period).
So... you were probably flying on the EMB-120, or even the 1900 when they had those.
If so, you were probably flying with a mixed bag of experience. Chances are, if you knew the experience of some of the pilots, you'd have been a bit put off or surprised. Not that they were not capable. But they were not 3000 hour pilots either.
Don't know what your "scary experiences were, but this website is primarily made up of military pilots. You probably won't find many military pilots at Sky West.
The backgrounds are dramatically different, and probably won't do much for you research.