It's always good to have the info ahead of time. Lord knows it made things tight around our house the month we coughed up the cash for the winging reception, party, shirts, mugs, gifts, etc...
If I had known how much I was looking at, I could have budgeted for it. And yes, Bender, I'm married, I have a kid, and I've got two car payments and a crapload of college debt.