As one of the 450 or so who are almost certainly in the bracket for redundancy, it's true that the RAF hasn't exactly handled this well...
And unfortunately, thanks to European regulations, we can't get a straightforward crossover to civilian flying. It's at least a £25k ($40k) bill for me to get my civil licences, and I'm halfway through the British equivalent of IFF!
P.s.: M2, that female Flight Lieutenant is now an instructor...