Since my F-bomb laden post was a little much and inconsistent with my original point, I'll try again.
Sorry to hear about your sister. That’s horrible. Hope the offender was dealt with harshly.
We don’t “crush” just the enlisted folks when it comes to DUIs. If you get a DUI as a Lt Col, MSgt, or Maj Gen your career is pretty much over. In most cases, you’re going to get an article 15 or an LOC and you’re not going to get promoted again. If you’re beyond 20 years, you might be talking about a severe long-term financial penalty. And, as Kuma noted, this is all on top of the punishment levied by civil authorities. Look, I’m not defending drunk driving. I just don’t think there’s this awful double standard, and I don’t agree with taking away somebody's pension after an otherwise successful and long AF career, regardless of rank achieved.