No one "wishes" anything of you. Most people here want a bro/broad who can hang out at the bar while being tactically proficient; not that complicated but more rare than you'd think in this day's AF. Incessant quibbling will not help your case.
Warning: derail inbound...
do you hate gay people because the bible told you so? who gives a shit what one guy does in his bedroom? join us in the 21st century...we have 3-D TV and shit.