Warrior Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 Disco nav touched on it (sts). I asked the sarc at my last sapr refresher how many sexual assaults come from the OG. The answer was 3 or 4 over his 10 year tenure ( out of 112 cases). The point is that at a base with 9 flying squadrons, the numbers show it's not that big of an issue. Should we help the victims? Absolutely. And to those who claim it's under reported I say prove it. I've been called a rapist since day 1 when I showed up at the academy and I'm tired of it. All of the data that we're quoted is how Sex assault is such a prevalent problem in the DoD or AF wide. Is any OG immune? Absolutely not but I don't think we're focusing in the right place. As for restricted reporting, I've never gotten a straight answer from a sarc-does a restricted report affect someone's flying status? What if they're on PRP?
ThreeHoler Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 I'm sure in some COMM Sq somewhere in the world, there are jokes about Bytes and RAM and those guys think it is funny Oh, you mean like the official slogan of the comm sq at Al Dhafra? The one that they stamp on every in- and out-processing checklist as well as have on their walls, etc. "Shooting comm all over your base" Real professional, that one. 2
pawnman Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 Disco nav touched on it (sts). I asked the sarc at my last sapr refresher how many sexual assaults come from the OG. The answer was 3 or 4 over his 10 year tenure ( out of 112 cases). The point is that at a base with 9 flying squadrons, the numbers show it's not that big of an issue. Should we help the victims? Absolutely. And to those who claim it's under reported I say prove it. I've been called a rapist since day 1 when I showed up at the academy and I'm tired of it. All of the data that we're quoted is how Sex assault is such a prevalent problem in the DoD or AF wide. Is any OG immune? Absolutely not but I don't think we're focusing in the right place. As for restricted reporting, I've never gotten a straight answer from a sarc-does a restricted report affect someone's flying status? What if they're on PRP? I once had a SQ/CC brief us up that the AF actually has fewer assaults per capita than most major organizations our size, especially ones with our demographic (young people living away from home for the first time...like any major college in America). Unfortunately, we don't see presidents of public universities hauled in front of congress every time a sorority sister passes out at a frat guy's place, but one "so to speak" and the military are all classified as sexual predators.
BitteEinBit Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 Oh, you mean like the official slogan of the comm sq at Al Dhafra? The one that they stamp on every in- and out-processing checklist as well as have on their walls, etc. "Shooting comm all over your base" Real professional, that one. Thanks ThreeHoler. While I actually laughed a little bit at that one....perfect example. A fighter pilot must be in command of that squadron....no way anyone in the MSG would tolerate that.
JarheadBoom Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 Why is it weak sauce and why do you expect non-fighter pilots to say it more than fighter pilots? It's weak because it should have been handled face-to-face, commander to subordinates. LEADERS have the balls to look their people in the eyes and tell them to their faces when they announce a policy that will be unpopular. MANAGERS have one of their staff write the memo for their signature, name others as their POC on the matter, then have the staffer email it to the unit on their behalf. LEADERS do not threaten to "tell Dad" about those who choose to violate the policy, they deal with those people themselves. I expect chickenshit from certain flavors of "leadership" (and not others) based on my personal experiences and observations, after 18+ years of service in two different branches.
DFRESH Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 Holy fucking shitballs... I just completely agreed with a Nav (nsplayer at the top of the page). It is the end of the world as we know it. 1
BuddhaSixFour Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 I've had this discussion with people in person, and I've realized that there is a massive fighter/bomber squadron echo chamber going on where everyone agrees that all of this is some sort of travesty witch hunt against tradition and culture. Just realize that to much of the rest of the Air Force (Liquid, 17D_Guy), just about anyone you'll ever work with in a joint environment, and the entirety of the outside world, you look like stupid frat boys at best. Maybe this is all misguided emphasis, and maybe this is important enough to you that you don't care, but you should be 100% aware of that before continuing.
theSituation Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 I've had this discussion with people in person, and I've realized that there is a massive fighter/bomber squadron echo chamber going on where everyone agrees that all of this is some sort of travesty witch hunt against tradition and culture. Just realize that to much of the rest of the Air Force (Liquid, 17D_Guy), just about anyone you'll ever work with in a joint environment, and the entirety of the outside world, you look like stupid frat boys at best. Maybe this is all misguided emphasis, and maybe this is important enough to you that you don't care, but you should be 100% aware of that before continuing. Who cares how they're viewed? Why is that important? What IS important is that there is nobody else on the planet who can do what they do as well as they do with the resources they have. If jokes and songs help them unwind after a day of practice or actual killing, then so be it. If you are offended by that, then don't hang out in their squadron bars. Why is a 69 or so to speak joke more offensive than the massive amount of violence these guys inflict on our enemies? Im not saying im offended by the violence, just trying to bring up a point that priorities are skewed here. Yeah, these guys are a very small segment of the force. It IS a fraternity/brotherhood. Nobody else does what they do. Everyone else is there for support. Let them be. And why bring up the joint argument? Why should they care? Is there anybody else they would like to have providing the service of killing from the air? I think not. 1
herkbum Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 Oh, you mean like the official slogan of the comm sq at Al Dhafra? The one that they stamp on every in- and out-processing checklist as well as have on their walls, etc. "Shooting comm all over your base" Real professional, that one. Anyone going after them like they are the fighter squadrons?
JarheadBoom Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 Anyone going after them like they are the fighter squadrons? As of today, no.
Guest LumberjackAxe Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 Is 69 and "so to speak" really that funny that everyone gets pissed off when they remove it in a squadron? I went on a raptor coronet and one of the new raptor guys was in the cockpit, and he kept saying shit like: "Next AR is in 69 miles," "The Raptor burns anywhere from 0 to 69,000 pounds per minute," and "There are 6.9 thousand pages in this damn dash one." It was just him and the -10 aircrew up front... I didn't find it that funny to begin with, and it got a little annoying after the first five times. I'm all for sexual innuendos, and extremely inappropriate jokes (by the way, the worst shit I've heard comes from crew chiefs, not aircrew). But 69 really isn't that funny after 9th grade... kind of like how saying "ur gay" isn't a good insult anymore. At least be creative with your innuendos. But I guess if it's a community tradition to incorporate 69 into every sentence, I can see why folks would get upset. I'm not offended by it--I find it slightly irritating, especially when you're trying to have a decent conversation--but is it really that big of a deal to use real numbers and refrain from saying "so to speak?" Does saying 69 really help you unwind that much after a flight? I don't agree with the rest of the memo (removing explicit music from a military squadron--really? No inappropriate callsigns--really?), but for the sexual innuendos... is it that bad to save them for the bar/cockpit/any place that isn't your desk job? Anyone going after them like they are the fighter squadrons? Gonna go do a quick check on said squadron tomorrow morning.
herkbum Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 I know everyone keeps talking about fighter pilot songs, but what about rap/hip hop music? It's offensive, and not just sexual innuendos. Are they going after that as well. Got to apply the rule across the board if it is going to be applied.
Hacker Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 (edited) Many policies are stupid and CSAF has directed you to not follow the stupid ones. Have the courage to identify them and get rid of them. I'm eager to see how that "rationale" plays out in the next CDI, or FEB, or Article 32 hearing, or even reply to an Art 15 or LOR. It'll go something like this: "You thought that rule was 'stupid', and IAW your massive misunderstanding of the CSAF's intent, and your ridiculously ignorant and dangerous judgment, you chose to not follow it. Under Article 31 of the UCMJ, you have the right to remain silent...." Does anyone seriously believe that if they see something dumb in the regs and disregard it, that they're NOT going to be severely punished be leadership for disregarding something in the regs? This is the Air Force leadership who has, downrange during actual combat operations, stated "compliance is more important than achievement." Whose judgment, exactly, is going to be considered the standard for determining if something in the regs is stupid and should be ignored? The current USAF culture effectively requires leadership at the Wing and below "mother-may-I" practically every minor deviation from the status quo because of this "compliance" mindset (you won't find that in the regs, natch, but you'll see it in the actions of Commanders as well as their stratifications following those "decisions"). So, can an Airman decide? Does he have to ask an NCO? Does that NCO have to ask their OIC? Does that OIC have to ask their Ops O or CC? Group CC? Wing CC? What level is the appropriate "judgment" level? My guess is that it is going to be at least one level higher than anyone who actually chooses to take this path. The first guy who does it is going to get paperwork, and then told that it was not in their authority to make such a decision. Anyone who actually values their career, their wings, whatever, is going to play the most conservative card possible and not dare to either think or color outside the lines, as that is what our experiences have shown us is the safest path. The only "courage" it is going to take for someone to break that conservative mold will be the willingness to lose your ability to honorably serve and risk being labeled as a problem child rule-breaker. For all the talk about "moral courage" I hear, what it translates to in the real world is falling on your sword and sacrificing your ability to continue serving honorably. Everyone I've known who has shown moral courage and tried to speak up about real problems with the status quo has been sidelined with paperwork, go-nowhere jobs, etc., because it has ruffled the feathers of officers who don't like to be told when they're not wearing any clothes, especially by people junior to them. I applaud what the CSAF is saying and wants us to do (because it is common sense to warfighters who are actually interested in, and focused on, professional warfighting), but it goes contrary to every other message on the topic of "compliance" that all levels of AF leadership other than the CSAF given over the last 6-9 years (to wit: reflective belts, uniform queep, mustache length -- you know, all the real important stuff for accomplishing the mission of combat airpower). Edited September 30, 2013 by Hacker 5
czecksikhs Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 I wonder if Major General Maggie Woodward has her old name tag from Del Rio that said "Helen Bed" on display at her new office as SAPR chief? 1
Steve Holt! Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 If 69 is just a number, no different than any other number, than start throwing 25 into sentences instead. Pilsung. 4
addict Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 (edited) ...CSAF given over the last 6-9 .... STS I know everyone keeps talking about fighter pilot songs, but what about rap/hip hop music? It's offensive, and not just sexual innuendos. Are they going after that as well. Got to apply the rule across the board if it is going to be applied. Vault music was above the number 69 on the list of things to eliminate in that MFR. Edited September 30, 2013 by addict
herkbum Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 STS Vault music was above the number 69 on the list of things to eliminate in that MFR. I'm not only referring to vault music. Many listen to iPods or radio at work. If the music can be heard by someone else, I would think that would make it a target.
17D_guy Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 (edited) I love how some people try and make it sound like pilots are all constantly drunk at work. As I've said elsewhere I don't have a problem with pilots drinking. i don't drink at all, but I wish we could have a Sq Bar, and a beer light. I think it would be great for our ALL Sq's. Additionally, no the jokes and comments don't lead to sexual assault. I never implied that, or meant to. That's as stupid as saying the "hook up" culture leads to rape. I was trying to contrast what I have seen in my corner of MSG (comm specifically). Comments/jokes do increase the likelihood of someone feeling harassed/reporting harassment. Lived through it, sucked big time. Same thing has been covered in every level of management training (undergrad, make your jokes) and PME. Ugh, I had problems with female Amn saying offensive crap to other female/male Amn. BitteEinBit has had a very different experience. Not sure if it's been Comm centric, which is where all mine has been. Sounds like an interesting environment, hope I get to experience it. I'm just trying to inject what my little bit of the MSG has been like at my bases in regards to this, not trying to take your flight suit. Cool your jets. Edited September 30, 2013 by 17D_guy
busdriver Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 sniff sniff sniff Still smells like a jock strap don't it?
Dupe Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 Stuff Hacker said... This is the fundamental problem. The boss wants folks to break the rules, color outside the lines, or to take risks. However, the promotion and compensation system we have inherently rewards those who take a conservative approach.
brabus Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 Gimme a fucking break. It's colossally low SA like this that has caused this little bit of unwanted attention. Wrong. I and 98% of the other fighter pilots I know/have met execute colossally high SA by removing "69," "6-9," "sts," etc. from our lexicon when outside the FS, at meetings with non-ops, etc. It's like Toro said, you sound like an idiot when you talk like that around others who aren't in the community. The 2% who don't do this are the new Lt's who haven't learned quite yet (reference Raptor wingmen story above). Bullshit, it happens too frequently and "you" encourage it and protect it. No other "culture" or AFSC actively defends their "right" to act like a sexist asshole like some (not all or most) in the fighter community Did you read what I said? We DO NOT act like sexist assholes, there you go again branding an entire community because you met a couple asshole fighter pilots over your career. I'm not defending those idiots, I'm pissed that my senior leadership is focusing on not having "verson 1.69" on a lineup card instead of putting that weight of effort into smashing the balls of those who actually harass/assault people. your persistent use of this number in inappropriate situations is also absurd. See my response to Danny. I chose to go to AFSOC and I am glad I did. Ironically one of our 1COs has said multiple times the AFSOC squadron she PCS'd from was FAR worse than our squadron in every way of sexual harassment. She said she was shocked at how professional and nice a FS was after "everything she had heard." So here's a data point: one AFSOC squadron is FAR worse than one FS. The point is this stuff can be everywhere, yet the AF is myopically focused on FS because it's the easy, visible target post-TSgt Whatever at Shaw. Focusing on one group of people because they have 'traditions' that can be visibly eliminated and reported as 'action taken' is not going to fix the problem. No...not as long as you still sell those magazines in the BX that have women in bikinis and sell 'sexuality.' Not as long as you play sexually explicit movies at base movie theaters, not as long as you play sexually suggestive programs on AFN TV and radio (by the way, I learned 'that's what she said' on a program I watch on AFN). It is difficult to take leadership seriously when they selectively target eliminating sexuality in one place, but promote sexuality (ie sexual preference) in another place. Shack. I hear more offensive shit on AFN than I do in an entire day at work. They play songs about doing drugs, banging chicks, killing people...that's OK dudes, but anything other than a pleasant "hello" in a FS is deemed sexual harrassment. What gives Liquid? I do appreciate you coming on here and giving the senior leader perspective, but at least to us line O-2 to O-5 guys, the tone is very "we are the senior leaders and you will put this dick in your mouth or get out of the AF, end of story!" Senior leadership says it wants to hear from the trenches, find answers as to why so many dudes hate this corporation and can't wait to get out, etc. But it clearly falls on deaf ears the majority of the time. I'm completely with you that TRUE sexual assault and harassment is completely wrong and I'll be the first guy in line to kick offending assholes in the balls. What I want to see my senior leadership do is put their money where there mouth is put their entire weight of effort against the real problems, not bullshit like v.169 on a lineup card.
Karl Hungus Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 I hear you that morale is not high. Why do you think that morale is not high? Why do you think that so many pilots want out of active duty as soon as possible? What are you and other "leaders" doing to fix those very real issues? Please be honest and detailed. Thanks.
Flaco Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 In ten years, we will look back at the fighter-centric culture that embraced these unprofessional, sexist and inappropriate traditions and we will wonder why our institution allowed it to happen for so long. sts, 69, sexist callsigns, squadron song books and word game traditions will die and our AF will be better off for it. When 82 year old Robin Olds lead us in the singing of "Balls of O'Leary" at the Sheppard O-Club in 2004 with a room full of 200 pilots (men and women) it was the most beautiful thing I had ever heard. It was right then and there that I understood why the "unprofessional, sexist, and innapropraite traditions" that you know nothing of were so important. You want to convince me that your perspective, the "senior leader" perspective, is better than Robin's. You have failed to do so. 3
Flaco Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 Wow. Nostalgia isn't what it used to be. Apparently you've never heard "Balls of O'Leary" sung in 3-part harmony. That shit will bring a tear to your eye.
Cap-10 Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 Too bad. Our nation needs talented and dedicated pilots to defend us. It is a shame that you don't want to continue to serve. Perhaps our next generation of fighter pilots won't be so willing to stop serving when their commitments are up. I hope we don't destroy the morale and brotherhood in fighter squadrons. I don't think we will. Too late...guys are getting out and the squadron looks like a ghost town after 1600 and given day of the week...it's a race to get the grade sheets done and then get the fuck out of dodge. I know of only one person that took the bonus but 6-9 that are getting out...one of them put in paperwork for the bonus out to 20, only to pullback and change to the 5 year optin, then pullback again again and now he is getting out of active duty. What are the new rules for crud in our great Air Force?...I'm guessing the Wing/CC isn't going be refereeing under the old verbiage? Wikipedia: Failing to be within the end of the table while making contact with the object ball and the shooter ball is a foul, called Balls (or Lips if female), and the offending player is assessed a life. We had a Crud tourney at the consolidated (vomit) club and the refs were calling "45" instead of balls/lips. Cap-10
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